" DID HERE GO THERE AND COME BACK " ?

I OF COURSE KNEW EXACTLY WHAT MIKE MEANT WHEN HE SAID THE ABOVE.  HE WANTED TO KNOW IF FONDA (OUR DAUGHTER) LEFT FOR CALIFORNIA AND IF SO HAD SHE COME BACK YET. MIKE SPEAKS A LOT WITH HIS HANDS NOW, AND SOMETIMES NO MATTER HOW HARD I TRY, I JUST CAN'T GET WHAT HE IS TRYING TO SAY.  MOST TIMES-THANKFULLY-I CAN.  ANY HOW TODAY SO FAR WAS A VERY HARD MORNING FOR ME.  I HAD BALDWIN BROTHERS COME BY THIS MORNING EARLY (WHILE MIKE WAS STILL SLEEPING), AND SIGNED ALL THE PAPER WORK FOR THE CREMATION.  I HAVE A DEAR FRIEND WHO WORKS FOR THE MANUFACTURERS OF URNS, AND SHE IS GIVING ME HER PRICE FOR THE ONE I PICKED OUT, SO I WILL HAVE IT MAILED TO MY SISTER VICKIE'S HOUSE UNTIL LATER ON.  I WAS HOPING THAT ONCE THAT WAS DONE I WOULD WORRY LESS, BUT SO FAR IT HAS NOT WORKED OUT THAT WAY.   MIKE IS UP NOW, AND I HAVE ALREADY GOTTEN HIS BREAKFAST.  HE IS IN A GOOD MOOD, AND IS READING (SORT OF) THE NEWS PAPER.   FONDA IS HAVING HER THIRD OR FORTH EYE SURGERY TODAY-WE ARE SURE HOPING IT WILL BE HER LAST!!!  MIKE KEEPS ASKING WHEN SHE WILL BE BACK, SO I KNOW HE IS MISSING HER ALREADY.  MIKE TOOK OFF HIS PAIN PATCH AGAIN LAST NIGHT, I JUST FOUND IT ON HIS NIGHT TABLE.  I HAD TO TAPE IT BACK ON, AS HE IS NOT DUE FOR A NEW ONE UNTIL TOMORROW.  WE ARE ALSO SUPPOSE TO GET SOME NEW PAIN GEL FED X'ED TO US THIS AM, TO SEE IF THAT DOES ANY BETTER THAN THE LIDOCANE PATCHES THEY HAD HIM ON BEFORE.  I AM ALL FOR ANYTHING THAT WILL REDUCE HIS PAIN!!  WELL, I GUESS THAT IS ALL FOR TODAY-I HOPE IT RAINS TODAY, AS MY TOMATO, TANGERINE, AND AVOCADO PLANTS ALL COULD USE A GOOD DOWN POUR.  TILL TOMORROW-JUST ME